Ayomide Weds Abiodun: Vow to Look Up not Down, Go Forward not Backward, Epitomize Virtues and Elegance

The wedding ceremony between Ayomide Omolola and Abiodun Bernard epitomizes the reality of God’s orchestrated union, and the truism of the saying that God orders the steps of His children and does not allow their paths to cross by accident. This occasion also, brings to mind the scriptural truth that he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord, and the wife being God’s prepared vessel for the man is virtuous, and therefore will do the man good, all the days of her life and not evil. Whatever God establishes, He perfects and as long as He remains in the union, hopelessness will never find a place, for to him that is joined to all the living, there is hope, because a living dog is better than a dead lion. Except the Lord builds the house, the laborers build in vain and except He watches over the city, the watchmen are awake but in vain, and because children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is reward, the assurance therefore is that this union is destined to be fruitful, and the couple will bear fruits, even at their old age.

Suffice to say and this is instructive, “the goal of our life is not to find joy in marriage, but to bring more love and truth into the world. We marry to assist each other in this task. The most selfish and hateful life of all, is that of two beings, who unite in order to enjoy life. The highest calling is that of the man, who has dedicated his life to serving God and doing good, and who unite with a woman in order to further that purpose.”- Leo Tolstoy. As God takes the first place, as well as the last in this union, the center will forever hold, and nothing can break it.

On a beautiful Saturday morning, the 21st of December 2024, Ayomide Omolola and Abiodun Bernard exchanged their vows in an unforgettable wedding ceremony at the Christ Apostolic Church, Hosannah Chapel, Korogboji Agbara Estate, Ogun State. The wedding ceremony elegantly commenced with a great entrance from the mass choir reciting a processional hymn. Following suit was an energetic praise and worship session which got everyone on their feet, dancing and singing to God for a glorious day. The bride’s parent, Pastor and Lady Evangelist Omolola, as well as the groom’s parent, Mr. and Mrs. Bernard were spotted judicious dancing to God. Even the groom was not left out, as he patiently waiting for the grand entrance of his beautiful bride.

After the praise session, the bride was welcomed in a monumental way as the mass choir recited the next hymn, while her bridesmaid walked in the church and she followed suit with her father by her side. The beautiful bride, Ayomide, looked stunning in her white bridal dress as she walked down the aisle to meet her dashing groom, Abiodun. The atmosphere was electric, with friends and families beaming with joy, as tears of joy rolled down their cheeks.

The announcement was taken, reminding the congregation of the reason why they had gathered and asked if there was any reason against the union of the couple, urging the congregation to speak now or forever hold their peace, after which the couple were asked the important question on if they agree to wed each other and they both replied in the affirmative, “Yes, I will. So, help me God.” The bride’s father, Pastor Joseph Omolola, handed over his daughter to the pastor, to be joined to the groom in holy matrimony. Afterwards, they exchanged their vows and the whole church said Amen, after which they both held a new Holy bible, and pledged. The church rose and prayed wholeheartedly for the couple. The congregation sat and the pastor joined their hands together and pronounced them husband and wife from that day forward, in the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Ghost. The mass choir took their song ministration, as the congregation got up to dance with the newly wedded couple.

Moving on, the wedding sermon was taken by the Pearce Regional Superintendent, Pastor S. O. Aluko. He preached on the topic, Maintaining the Partner (Wife) of your Youth. He emphasized on the importance of maintenance in anything, and in this case one’s home, so that it lasts longer. According to him, “if a couple are properly managed in their youth, they have no limit, thus, the benefit of maintenance. Manage when you are still very strong.” He gave the couple the following recommendations: “value each other as a gift from God, see each other as an indispensable companion, see each other as your partner in the journey of life, learn to appreciate each other”, among others.

Afterwards, the couple signed their marriage certificate, while the wedding thanksgiving was taken. A photography session was taken with the officiating ministers and the couple. The Bride’s father mounted the pulpit to express his appreciation to every guest present. When he was done, the church watch word for the year was recited, followed by the benediction, and lastly the recessional hymn was taken by the mass choir, as they stepped out, followed by the couple and lastly the congregation.

Going forward, the reception that followed was a lively celebration of love, laughter, and music. The hall decoration was the real definition of elegance, beautifully decorated with flowers in gold and white. As ushers formally welcomed guests, ushering them to their respective tables, great gospel music was played by a live music band to entertain the guests, before the party officially started. The opening prayer was led by Pastor Thompson Adetutu.

For the grand event, the royal father of the day was HRM S. S. Akindele, Arebigbade IV, the Olu of Owode Yewa. While, the Chairman of the day was Pastor Dayo Daodu, the Deputy VC Academic, LASUED, Oto/Ijanikin.

While the live music band continued to play, the Master of Ceremony (MC) welcomed in the bride’s family as they danced in. Following suit was the husband’s family. While waiting for the couple to arrive, the bride’s parent went around to greet guests and ensured everyone was doing fine.

Finally, the latest couple arrived at the reception, ushered in by the bridesmaids and groomsmen in their best dance. The couple danced to their royal seat and the event commenced. The chairman of the day, Pastor Dayo Daodu took his speech, thanking the bride’s parent for the honor and wishing the couple a happy married life, remembering his marriage journey started 20 years ago. He prayed for them from the depth of his heart and exited the stage.

Furthermore, it was time to cut the wedding cake. It was a 3-tier cake, beautiful decorated in white and gold. They cut the cake after the pronouncement of the word GRACE. Next was the father daughter dance moment. It was one that left tears of joy in the eyes of the many. Afterwards, the couple had their romantic dance, and the guests were persuaded to dance with the couple, as they sprayed money on them. The couple had a spontaneous time at the reception, as they played couple games. This was followed by a toast from the guests to the couple. The guests presented a lot of gift items to the couple, who expressed their appreciation as they gave their vote of thanks. The event came to a close as the couple gave a grand exit, dancing out of the hall. It was indeed a remarkable wedding ceremony, one that no guest would forget in a hurry.

We at the Giantability Media Network wish Mr. and Mrs. Bernard a happy married life. Congratulations to the happy couple! May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your marriage be filled with laughter, joy, and adventure. May your union continually look up and not down, go forward and not backward, and epitomize virtues and elegance.

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Written by Kofoworola Oladoke

Photographs: Babatunde Ajayi

Graphics Design: Deborah Samuel